11.30.2005

逃避

人往往在面对困惑,不知如何抉择、如何取舍时,选择逃避。这是无可避免的,因为人的本性就如此。

逃避并非不可,但要清楚知道的是,逃避却绝非解决问题的方法之一。在逃避的背后仍有醒觉于面对现实的一天。因为不管逃的多久、逃得多远,问题始终存在。长久的逃避反而只会让问题在时间于距离的介入变得更深、更重!

可 笑的是,逃避也可算是在选择面对问题时所踏出的第一步。它,是人在发掘问题的存在后,努力尝试解决,确又无法做到时选择的一条路。因为逃避能让人在困惑中 拥有一个可休息的角落,暂时放下、暂时离开。但人往往在逃避中迷失了、忘时了!忘了回到现实、忘了时间不会为他们而暂停!

逃避是人的嗜好,是每一个人都避免不了的,是让人不想爱、但却又不能恨的!

11.16.2005

Love Personality Test







That means you are more
Introverted than Extroverted, Sensing than Intuitive, Feeling than Thinking, and more Perceiving than Judging.
Being an ISFP means that you're the kind of person who can usually be counted on. More than most people, your integrity seems to be of central importance to you. This fact bodes well for those around you. It means you tend to say what you mean, keep your promises, and walk your talk. There's very little empty chatter when you're around. Another way you show you can be counted on is by being sensitive to others. You usually know just the right thing to do to make someone feel valued in your life. Although you're not the kind who's big on intense emotional confessions or displays, your feelings run deep. One way you're able to show your true emotions is by being faithful.

In relationships, you'll usually try hard to make things work. Unlike some, you're not likely to freak out when there's a bump in the road. This is probably just another aspect of your patience and ability to stay on task. But be careful of taking your loyalties too far. Perseverance will usually pay off for you. However, sometimes you may try too hard and stay in situations that aren't necessarily the best for you. Leading a harmonious life can be vital to people of your type. As a result, most times you'd rather find a way to compromise than rock the boat. You'll even take on others' responsibilities if you feel it's necessary. Know that the right person will not take advantage of this generous spirit. You can use your highly empathic nature to help spot the one who's right for you. You seem to have a talent for knowing how others really feel without having them spell everything out for you. This intuition can be a great gift in relationships and in other aspects of life.

11.05.2005

爱无涯。。

一个似简单又难的题目。。但猪头近可在瞬间就写出了一篇感人非常的短文!
http://jasonchng.blogspot.com/

爱是无边无际的。。是让人生死相许的。。是庸人之扰的!

爱。没有时会让人渴望。。拥有后则让人烦恼。。这是我的好友常对我说的! 是与否;对或错。。你认为呢?

爱。是一种很奇妙的感觉。。一种任何人都不能缺少的!

爱。无论是对朋友,家人,或情人。。都是美好的!

所谓爱无涯。它就是不分国籍;种族;性别。。。就是无边无际!